people can be insensitive most of the time

i feel bad for my friend today. you see, she's heading a show (one of her org's projects) and most of the people she was hoping would go have turned her down. my friend and i were expecting these people to come considering when they were heading their respective projects, we supported them all the way. and now, they are giving the most unvalid excuses for their absence.

there's this girl... she didn't come from our high school. because she was friends with some of my friends from high school, she has become a part of our table group at the caf. personally, i dislike her (and a lot from our "adopted" table group mates). why? she acts as if she deserves everyone's attention. she's not someone who you can have a decent conversation with. she acts like she were some boss. (side story. when my friend invited his blockmates --she included to his rest house, she didn't even bother to help in the clean-up. she only offered to when the clean-up was already done.) she is seriously in dire need of attention, eavesdropping to almost all the conversations in the table.

anyway, my friend was manning the booth for the ticket sales, and this girl passed by along with one of our table group mates. she was there telling my friend that she wouldn't be able to go. okay. it seems that there's really nothing offensive about it. however, she goes on, telling my friend about some of our table group mates doing a toss coin on whether or not to go. and the result of the toss coin was that they wouldn't go. SHE JUST HAD TO SAY IT. and of course, like any normal sensitive human being, my friend felt really bad. to add more insult to the injury, the girl was even laughing when she was telling my friend about it.

TOSS COIN? what the hell?! when we watched their movie premiers or ate their food products, bought the things they were selling, we never tossed coin. we said yes, even with hesitation, still we obliged. we had to make prior arrangements if there were conflicts in schedules, if there were no transportation available, but we still went and did our part.

no wonder i have lost zeal over my friends from the table group. i wish they get an idea of how insensitive they are.